Posted in Arbonne, Beauty, Cosmetics, environment, Fashion, General Life, Uncategorized

Life Updates and Amazing Beauty Products

First things first let’s talk life updates! So Tuesday will be my last day at my job and the anticipation is mounting. I am still unemployed and slightly terrified. I know everything will be ok though. I had a really good interview for a state job that will pay better than my current job so I am praying that comes through. I am also returning to school for Interactive Multimedia and will start my Twitch stream back up. So that’s going to be exciting. More to come on that in the future though let’s get focused on my reason for writing today.


You might be asking ‘what is Arbonne?’ I know the first time I heard about it I wondered. Arbonne is not your average healthy living company. Everything they sell is good for you! All of their products are vegan friendly and they last. They have long lasting and fantastic cosmetics, amazing hair products and excellent skin care regimens. On top of that they sell AMAZING dietary aids. These things are fantastic and they’re free of any kinds of chemicals or unhealthy ingredients that many of their competitors have as well as being 100% vegan friendly.

So I went to an Arbonne party hosted by my fantastic friend Lauren and I got an awesome free makeover. Let’s talk about the foundation and the brush she used first. I had some acne that day, and this product left my face looking airbrushed. I was blown away and it lasted me for over 8 hours! It’s water based and fantastic. I went outside with it on, I sweated, I cooked, I cleaned up, and I even took a small nap (not recommended to sleep in your makeup). This stuff did not budge until I washed it off! It was amazing.

The products I’m talking about are the Got You Covered Mineral Powder and the Mineral Powder Brush.

I will definitely be adding these to my cosmetics collection in the future. If you want to check out more of their products visit my friend Lauren’s store for all of their amazing things. Also don’t forget to check back here regularly for updates on some of their fantastic products!

Posted in finances, General Life, Rants, The Dream, Uncategorized, work


I’m not much of a risk taker. I have lately been telling myself I want to be one. To my readers I’m sorry I haven’t posted lately, but I’ve been dealing with a lot the last week.

First off I wanted to make this post one to promote my amazing friend and her new business venture, but I feel I need to take a moment to be a bit selfish so I can share an update on my life.

So I typically talk about wanting to pay off my debt and my goals to make this blog something that will be a financial benefit. That is still my goal, but this week I took a huge risk that might shake up the course of things for a while. Currently I have a job with a company that I have been a part of for almost five years. It’s a very high stress job and it’s tearing me apart. To help put things into perspective the depression and anxiety I feel daily wasn’t even this high when I lost my mother. I sit at work feeling sick to my stomach everyday due to the insane pressure of just completing my assignments on time. I’ve barely slept, and I struggle with eating everyday. Normally I come home and have a good cry while trying to force feed myself. Yesterday I decided I’d had enough. After a confrontation with my direct supervisor and a panic attack on the drive home that nearly caused me to have to pull over I called my dad and we discussed what I could do to better handle the situation. After a five minutes we came to the perfect solution.

Today I handed in my two week notice.

It was definitely a risk. I have nothing to fall back on right now. I have some stuff sitting on the side that I could consider, but nothing confirm and that terrifies me. My first reaction was to have a minor panic attack after I sent the resignation, but as the day went on and my coworkers spoke to me I felt a weight lift off of me. I’m still emotionally exhausted but I feel for the first in a long time I’ll actually sleep well tonight. I had people come up and congratulate me, and then when I told them I had nothing to fall back on stare at me in amazement. Some said I was crazy, but others said they admired my boldness. You’ve all seen my debt and as you know I’m constantly broke and living paycheck to paycheck. So I decided what’s better, broke and happy or broke and miserable? The answer is obvious.

So here I go. Off to figure out what the heck I’m doing with myself. Wish me luck and hopefully I don’t fall flat on my face.

Posted in finances, Food, games, General Life, shopping, survey, technology, The Dream, Uncategorized, work

10 Free Money Making & Saving Apps Worth Having

Hey everyone! I hope you find yourselves well today. I’ve been doing a bit of cleaning up around the blog particularly in rebranding it. Let me know what you guys think of it. Did you prefer the old name of Confessions of a Fashionista better? If so please let me know in the comments below!


Onto the topic of the day 10 Free Money Making & Saving Apps Worth Having. Part of my side hustle has been to save money and earn money using various apps on my phone that make it even easier!

  • Shopkick – Ok so I’m sure you’ve heard of this by now, but if you haven’t or you have and still haven’t downloaded it you absolutely have to click the link and get it! You earn points that can be put towards gift cards for your favorite stores literally just for walking in. Scan items and get even more points. Buy items by attaching your card to the app and yes you’re getting even more points. It is so easy to rack up the points. As a Target shopper I can literally walk in, spend about 20 minutes shopping and scanning things as I pass and walk out easily with over 200 points. The app also has in app offers you can just click on to find hidden points. (Android/iOS)
  • Slidejoy – This app is so easy to use. You literally have to do nothing! That’s right you set it up, it shows an ad on your lock screen and you earn credit for it. The phone behaves normally, it goes to sleep, it unlocks the same way, everything works like normal it just has an ad on it. I haven’t even noticed a change in my battery life from using it. In just a few months I earned $10 in gift cards and a $2 PayPal cash credit. You can even set it up for ‘Hero Mode’ where your money automatically gets donated to the charity of your choice! (Android)
  • Ibotta – The ease of use this app offers really blew up a few months back and it’s still going strong. So how do you use it? Pick your store, pick your items, add them to your list, take a picture of your receipt and wait for your rebate to deposit! Yes it is that easy. You’re literally making a grocery list and sending a pic of your receipt to get money back. How exciting is that? (Android/iOS)
  • Foap – I admit I haven’t used this one yet. If my Instagram feed on the side is any indication I don’t take many pictures and when I do they’re subpar at best. Still if you’re an Instagram junkie or just love taking pictures like my sister this app may be right up your alley. You can sell your images online as stock photography. Each picture goes for around $10 and you’ll just get the money deposited into your PayPal account. Maybe one day I’ll add something there. (Android/iOS)
  • ReceiptHog – This is an even simpler version of Ibotta as you don’t have to make a list and shop at specified locations. Just take a picture of your receipt, earn your points and cash them in for Amazon or PayPal cash.  (Android/iOS)
  • Google Opinion Rewards – This is an Android only application, but it’s simple and free. All you have to do is take some brief surveys and you’ll earn credit towards your Google Play account. That credit can be used towards the purchase of apps, music or even movies! (Android)
  • FreePrints –  (Use code rflesch1 to get 5 extra prints per month) This is not a money making app, but it’s a big money saver if you like to print pictures. I know I said I don’t take many pictures, but in the past I’ve taken quite a few when on vacation. Printing them for scrap booking and framing can be extremely expensive, but with FreePrints you receive 100 prints every month that are actually good quality. You only have to pay shipping and handling and they even have bonus’s like free photo books! I absolutely love this app! (Android/iOS/Windows/Amazon)
  • Postmates – (Use code lrwud to get $10 off your order) Once again this isn’t a money maker, but it’s a money and time saver! Postmates delivers merchandise and restaurant food to your home without the hassle of having to go out yourself. They cover everything from your favorite sit-down eateries to fast food restaurants as well as hardware stores and auto shops. This is excellent for anyone who may not have the time or ability to get everywhere they need to go in one day. (Android/iOS)
  • GigWalk – When I first got this app there were a limited selection of gigs in my areas. It’s rapidly expanding though and gigs are filling up fast! Currently there is a gig in my area to earn $32 just for following their simple instructions in reviewing a specific McDonalds location. This app is fantastic for quick and easy cash! (Android/iOS)
  • Iconzoomer – This one is really easy and another great earning app. It gives you assignments like ‘take a picture of your lunch and tells us what you’re eating’ or ‘take a picture of your favorite pair of shoes and tell us why you love them.’ Then you can earn cash deposited directly into your PayPal account or even charitable donations. (Android/iOS)
Posted in Anxiety, games, General Life, Uncategorized

Friends and Pokemon Go

I’ve come to find that sometimes I take my friends for granted. I have a pretty high level of anxiety and am not always aware of certain social queues so I find it difficult to make friends in the first place. Then between my depression and anxiety it can often be hard for me to get out. I’m so grateful for those who have stuck by me through everything though. The ones who understand that I’m not a perfect person and sometimes I just can’t wrap my mind around stepping outside of the front door.

I’ve always had anxiety, but due to a series of changes that have occurred in my life over the last few years that anxiety has been heightened.

This weekend would have been spent holed away inside of my home like normal, but I got a text from one of my best friends asking if I could help him with a project. That project was to bake nearly 10 dozen cookies for a party at a bar he’d been asked to supply food for. I had no reason to say no after all. I am so grateful I got out. He’d also recruited another friend of ours who we play video games with and his new roommate who promptly decided studying for her finals was out of the question when it came to cookies.

In the process of forcing myself to leave the house and help a friend I actually made a new friend. It turns out his roommate and I have a lot in common and found ourselves running to the end of the street at midnight to steal Team Mystic’s gym back from Team Instinct in the popular Pokemon Go app. Yes I play Pokemon Go. I have no shame in this it’s my childhood and I’m a gamer. On top of that it’s a game that has encouraged me to get out and meet people. It fascinates me how many kind people I’ve casually crossed paths with just because of this game.

So another of my changes is to get out, make new friends and keep building the friendships I have.

Posted in General Life, Uncategorized

My Finances

Driving home today I came to the conclusion that in order to stay diligent I needed to blog daily. One thing I feel I need to be open and honest about on this journey is my finances. They are not in a good place and this is 100% my own fault. I figure it’s best if I start at the beginning and walk you through everything so you can see where I am and how I got there. Maybe with luck someone will see this and learn from my mistakes.

I applied for an “emergency” credit card with a high interest rate when I was young, and I maxed it out quickly. No worries though it was only $500.00. I had no other expenses and I still lived at home so paying it off was easy. This is where the problems started. When you pay off your entire balance your credit card company tends to love you and they show that by raising your limit. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It can look great for your credit score. The problems arise when you’re a young twenty-something with no understanding of finances. That card currently sits at a balance of $2,296.70 with a monthly payment of $70.00. This was paid off once via refinancing, which was good at the time since I had my interest cut in half. The problem was I charged it back up.

Then came credit card number 2. So let’s take a step back and imagine I’m still 24 and happily employed with a financial firm. I am making double what I made in retail and paying off that credit card balance while living at home and not having a car is a breeze. So naturally my employer is raining down offers of credit cards with great perks upon my head. Credit cards that I’m quickly learning all about from my coworkers and my job. I apply and get approved for a $3,000.00 limit. I don’t max it out though. Not at first anyways. See first I get a car, which we’ll go back to. Then a few months later I get in an accident, which like everything else is my fault. So now I owe my insurance company and a rental car agency. All of this is happening while I’m in the process of moving into my first place. I run out of money really quick so I start leaning on my credit cards, which already have balances on them. I max them out quickly by not watching what I’m buying and figuring I can just pay it off. Sure. I can just pay it off I think not realizing that moving out I’ll have less money in my pocket. This card currently sits at $2,999.04 monthly payments around $78.00 to $80.00 depending on if I let it slip over the limit with interest or not.

Now we have the third credit card. This is not the end of my credit cards. That card I purchased for travel perks. I wanted to go on vacation with my cousin so of course 25 year old me said that obviously I needed a credit card that had vacation perks. The balance on that card at the time I paid it off was $2,043.00 and I was making monthly payments of $85.00. I no longer owe on this card, but I did refinance it so I owe that. It was a better decision as I was able to cut the interest in half. I destroyed this card and it has since closed out with thankfully a $0.00 balance.

Now onto card four. This card I got because it was a retail card with points. Retail credit cards can be a nightmare. This one actually hasn’t been too bad to me. The minimum payment sits under $40.00 usually as long as I don’t go over the $1,000.00 limit. Right now though I am currently sitting at a balance of $1,058.82.

Card five is also a retail card that I got so I could get computer parts at a discounted rate. At the time it was great and I did pay it off really quickly. Then I started using it to buy other things. As the debt and balance of other cards rose I started using this to purchase basic essentials I needed in everyday life. Things like food, shampoo, soap, etc. The balance sits at $1,568.80 with monthly payments of around $30.00.

The last card is card six. It is not the end of my shameful debt. Card six was attached to a spending account I had and the first few times I used it I didn’t realize it was coming from a credit card and not my debit card. I kept purchasing video games and clothes without realizing I wasn’t spending my own money on these frivolous things but a sum of funds from a high interest credit card. Currently the balance of this card sits at $1,993.60 with payments of close to $70.00 a month.

So before we move onto my other debt let’s tally up the credit cards alone. The credit card debt comes in at $9,916.96. Just under $10,000. My goal this year is to pay off all of that debt.

Now onto the next mistake. The dreaded Student Loans. I paid my way through college for my first three years. I was just about five classes away from graduating so at age 24 as I started my new job I decided to power through those five classes and pull out a student loan to cover the costs. Spoiler alert I didn’t graduate. In fact I overwhelmed myself and failed a class twice before dropping out. I never realized that even if I paid it off early it wouldn’t matter because I would still owe interest. I currently have dwindled it down to $2369.41 and thankfully only make payments of $26.00 which I managed to get down from $85.00.

Next is the refinanced loan I took out with my bank to cut down my interest rates on those two credit cards I mentioned above. On that I owe $3,731.25 and make payments of $124.00 a month.

Lastly is my car as I mentioned in the very beginning. I adore my car, but I have considered selling it to trade off for something cheaper. I refinanced this car less than a year ago and still owed over $10,000.00 on it at the time. Thanks to refinancing that took my interest down drastically I now only owe $8,878.28 and make monthly payments of $240.00 this is less than what I was paying before.

All of that debt aside keep in mind I also pay $70.00 a month for cell service, $25.00 for internet, $400.00 for rent, around $40.00 for gas and close to $70.00 for electric. Not to mention any medical fees, groceries and pet supplies I purchase. I pull in less than $2,000.00 a month.

My total debt is sitting at $24,895.90 with monthly payments around $680.00 to $700.00 total depending on if I’ve overdrawn or not. That is nearly $25,000.00 that I owe. Were mistakes made? You betcha! Am I going to take ownership and fix them? Heck yes! I have fallen behind months, which majorly hurt me. I also make over payments in an effort to chip away at it, but with the interest on most of them I just can’t make a dent it seems. I’ve started a savings account though with a whole $23.00 in it. My goal each paycheck is whatever is left over from the previous one will go into that account, and at the end of the month my credit card with the lowest payment will get an additional payment of whatever is in that savings account. This will help knock out the principle balance, and as I take out my smaller cards the payments I make on those I will begin to stack with higher cards.

Other ways I am saving money are as follows:

  • I am only shopping at Aldi for my groceries until I am out of debt. I currently shop at a high end organic store for all of my food. This week I went to Aldi’s and spent a quarter of what I would normally spend for the same products also organic.
  • I am picking up side hustles. I currently am working with and am so excited for the opportunity.
  • I will begin selling things I do not need on Facebook and eBay.
  • I am investing in The Happy Planner thanks to a gift card from my aunt for my Birthday. Looking at these beautiful planners that allow me the opportunity to be creative and organized in life makes me so excited.

So I invite you to join me monthly as I update you with all of my financial ups and downs! I can’t wait to be debt free, because once I am I will begin the journey towards purchasing my first home.

Posted in The Dream, Uncategorized, work

Do What You Love

I’ve spent five years working in the financial industry, and while my job has been wonderful to me financially it’s not where my heart is. My heart and passion are in writing and expressing myself creatively. Today begins my journey towards becoming my own boss. I am progressively looking for small work-from-home side hustles so I can build a nice savings account while I work to establish myself and my blog. Hopefully within the next year I can have myself well established and with a decent enough monthly income from my blogging that I can make my passion a full-time career.

I’ve learned as I near my 30’s that life isn’t all about money. Life is about living each moment with joy. I know you can’t pay the rent with ‘joy,’ but what if you could? What if doing what made you happy could support you? What if it could support you more so than you current day job? I truly believe it can. I look at these bloggers with these success stories. Bloggers who monthly bring in well more than I currently do. I’ve decided it’s time for a change. I know the changes will be small and gradual, but I have faith that I can achieve my dreams.

It will take time and drive. I know I won’t immediately pull in the funds, but with dedication I will succeed. I invite you to follow me on this journey as I will be open and honest with my monthly income from my writing and my side hustle. I will tell you what I feel I’m doing right and what I’m doing wrong.

To start I have applied with the following companies. This is just the beginning of my side hustle.

Text Broker

Both of these will allow me the opportunity to bring in extra income to put towards my savings and debt so I can begin this journey towards becoming a full-time blogger and freelance writer.

Wish me luck and say a little prayer because I’m starting at $0, but hope to reach a regular stream of $5,000 a month in 12 months time!